Men, too, deserve to be spoiled


We have often written about how to impress women and what men should do. Now, it is time we talk about what men like and need in their relationships. Men are often reluctant to discuss things they need emotionally and prefer to be quiet and suffer inside, but as a wonderful partner, you probably want to know what your man really needs from your relationship. Here are 6 Things All Men Really Want In A Relationship:

1 Comfort

Last but not least – comfort. In their busy stressful life, men want some peace, which they expect from their partner. They want to feel comfortable and relaxed with you, which will help relieve their stress. It’s about being in touch with them emotionally, men do have emotions although they may not show it. They get strength from you, so you should be supportive.

2 Respect

Men feel respect as love. If he feels like you disapprove of him, his career, or anything he believes to be integral to who he is as a person, he will have a hard time trusting and loving you. The thought process behind that being: “If she does not respect who I am at my core, then how can she really want what is best for me?” If a man’s partner does not respect his path or mission in life, then he will find it very difficult to feel other than an anxious need to distance himself from her.

3 Appreciation

Men often complain that their partners don’t appreciate them. The term “male ego” is famous and as a partner, you must take care of your man’s ego. Praise him and appreciate his effort, efficiency, love,… Most men do not require constant appreciation but when something is good why not just say it and improve his day? Keep telling your man about his good looks, gestures, and whatever you like about him.

4 Live your own life

Real men want a woman who inspires them to be a better man and she does that by living her own life. Men want a woman who’s independent and self-sufficient. Save the whole damsel in distress lifestyle for the fairytales.

5 Communication

Often women feel their men should get their clues or hints to find out what’s missing or bothering them, but men actually need good communication to know these things, and will rarely get your clues. Lack of communication leads to disappointment in women (as to why he is not getting any clue) and irritation in men.

6 Games Free Relationship

Most men don’t like being manipulated. They expect their partners to know how to treat someone with respect. A relationship is free of mind games or blaming games lasts longer. Take care of the fragility of your relationship and trust the man you chose. This will help them trust you, love you, and respect you as well.


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  1. That is so true!, you should treat him the same way you would like to be treated, he is human and have feelings.just like you!

  2. I have always treated my man this way. However my main fault,, I am not very independent or secure with myself. I have suffered a lot in my past. I know what I need to do. it is just taking longer then I like to change myself. This is only my second real relationship. My first relationship was 24 years, this relationship so far has been 6 1/2 years. I was cheated on by both men. ?? Obviously brings on the insecurities as to why does this keep happening to me ? however you still love him with everything in you!! He says he loves you and yes you will get back together but he is still talking to his ex girlfriend he cheated with who by the way is handicap??? I am totally struggling to leave him. I have grown with him a lot. Is our relationship is greatest was in the beginning not exactly but I’m told that’s the honeymoon stage does he still make you happy and make me feel like a teenager in love yes he still does. Yes communication struggles I say communicate he says it’s arguing. I don’t know what to do. I am so in love with him I want to forgive him and continue in a relationship with him as long as that is what he wants.
    Otherwise, how do I let go??

    1. i have lost my love of my life for the 5 points and i regret being stubborn and i was always to busy and he gave me all the time but still i never trusting his way and secrets about finances i still blame myself and he does to and it’s over but the love can’t just go away and am in the same bout and wish i had more respect and commitment but my dear don’t let go if you love him and begin to trust